#Nonbinary Woman

[dhddmods]

In case anyone isn't aware, status-quo-hater has said some exorsexist things, pluralphobic things, and has a double standard for contradictory labels & separating transness from sex/AGAB.

This is a post meant to make its followers aware of whether or not their identities are respected, and aware of its harmful stances.

We do not encourage harassment of this individual.

It has yet to address its harmful posts, which bothers us greatly. It needs to make it known whether it has changed its views, or if it is going to double down on its harmful standpoints.

Status-quo-hater has, in this post and this post:

1.

-Said that to identify as a trans woman, you have to have "transitioned into womanhood" - while simultaneously saying that mulleripathian non-binary people cannot identify as trans women (thus equating non-binary womanhood to binary womanhood, when they are separate experiences.) This directly harms mulleripathian non-binary women (ie; demigirls, girlfluxes, multigender women, etc), as it is treating them as either a cisgender woman (which is malgendering by only acknowledging their womanhood) or genderless/gender neutral (which is misgendering by ignoring their womanhood), and implies that they have no social or physical transition towards womanhood necessary. That is untrue. Mulleripathian non-binary women do have to transition towards womanhood - it's just a different type of womanhood than what was previously established. This falls into the same narrative as calling them "basically cis." It also separates wolffipathian non-binary women from mulleripathian non-binary women, by allowing wolffipathian non-binary women to use the trans women label, but not the mulleripathian ones. This is hypocritical considering it has said in the past that it doesn't think trans people should be defined by their assigned gender/sex.

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-Said that mulleripathian trans women are misusing the "trans women" label, which completely ignores re-transitioning women (ie; "detrans" mulleripathians, who are re-transitioning into womanhood.) Is their transition back into womanhood not a transition? This also ignores interrupted mulleripathians who wish to transition towards femininity after experiencing androgenizing effects from non-intersex atypical experiences (ie; mulleripathians who had a tumor that produced high levels of androgens, making them non-intersex but also giving them androgenized traits.)

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-Told plurals how to identify their genders, as a singlet. It has no right to input on this whatsoever, and should leave that to the plurals within its community. (We swear, no matter how plurals identify their genders, singlets will always argue and never be satisfied.) If you wanna read about our sysmate Weni's experience with this, you can see our reblog of its post here.

4.

-Blatantly stated that it does not support coffeebean transmascs & honeybee transfems.

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[darkmagenugget]

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[genderqueerdykes]

hi equinox!

i was wondering, how do you feel about people who identify as nonbinary women or nonbinary men?

hope you are doing well :)

thats totally fine and normal! lots of people identify that way! i'm sure people would be happy to let you know! i know lots of nonbinary men and women. take care of yourself! stay safe

[alex-the-bringer-of-chaos]

Ok, let's be honest, these two:

Are the bi4bi couple.

Also love the idea of them being t4t of some kind, with this iteration, to me, being Morticia as a nonbinary woman and Gomes a nonbinary man.

[charlie-lottie]

TORiC | ТОРИК

— a general term for non-binary who are either exclusively or non-exclusively attracted to men.

In short, it can be described as NBLM (nonbinary loving men)

Reasons for use may vary, such as: lack of confidence in orientation and/or attraction, but are confident that you are attracted to men ; use instead of gay ; are in/want to be in a relationship with a man ; are in love with/want to fall in love with a man ; are associated with NBLM ; prefer men ; your attraction/love is mainly aimed at men ; etc.

— общий термин для небинарных, которые испытывают либо исключительно, либо не исключительно влечение к мужчинам.

Сокращено можно описать как НБЛМ (небинарные любящие мужчин)

Причины использования могут быть разные, например: неуверенность в оринтации и / или в влечение, но уверенность что привлекают мужчины ; использовать вместо гей ; находитесь/хотите находится в отношениях с мужчиной ; влюблены/хотите влюбиться в мужчину ; связаны с нблм ; предпочитаете мужчин ; ваше влечение/любовь в основном нацелена на мужчин ; и др.

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[boygirlfemme]

𐙚 ⋆ ࣪ . nonbinary flag redesign

i feel like nonbinary is seen as one specific gender by a lot of people, so i made this flag to emphasize the different ways one can be nonbinary. please give your opinions :3

color meanings (top to bottom):

white: multigenderness

yellow: neutrality, joy

orange: xenogenders, gender-nonconformity

pink: femininity, love

black: genderlessness, infinite gender possibilities

purple: androgyny

blue: masculinity, fortitude

green: not fitting in the gender binary, peace

white: genderfluidity, genderfluctuatiom

[ohfugecannada]

Found a poorly aged Hillary Clinton badge at the charity shop, turned it into a png and made a few edits. Feel free to use for whatever!

[vlada-slavik]

LGBTQIA+ CAT PROFILE PICTURES [ pt 7 ]

Free to use, just credit if you can!

Don't see yours? Check the #lgbtcatpfp !

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[redacted-coiner]

FINgender, NINgender, MINgender

Agender Man, Genderqueer, Agender Woman

Nonbinary Woman, Anonbinary, Nonbinary Man

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag!

[dhddmods]

hopefully this isn't an uber weird thing to send in, I feel weird adding directly to the post lol! but uber fuck with your takes on the whole afab perisex transfem thing, also cool to see other systems out there with transfem headmates where that aspect of identity intersects with being in a system. one of my headmates is a trans woman whose innerworld experiences affect her gender identity a lot and she loves hearing about other people like her.

anyways, something I feel that was weirdly not touched on at all in the og post was the like, not exceedingly unheard of experience of detransitioning, and I've actually seen multiple instances of people who ended up detransitioning deciding to label themselves as still being trans but in a different way, regardless of their AGAB or original developmental pathway. Someone who was AFAB and/or originally experienced a TMDP who ended up socially and/or medically transitioning to affirm their gender when they identified as a man, for example, but ended up identifying as a woman later and thus socially and/or medically transitioning again, can be considered transitioning into womanhood and therefore 100% has the right to consider themselves a trans woman. and I honestly feel like people who have experienced transition in this way or anything adjacent are a super erased group, so it sucks seeing them denied relevance once again.

and a cool (not cool) thing - before I was ready to accept I was intersex (and still considered myself perisex) I sort of played around a lot with related labels, because it was the only way I knew how to express my gender while dealing with shit I didn't know how to explain. but I came across a similar take as what was expressed in the original post while trying to read up more on intersex shit, and let me tell you... it was crushing. I felt unbearable shame and was afraid of expressing myself too openly out of fear of being assumed to be a bad person, all while I was dealing with difficult feelings with regard to gender and my experiences with sex. It undid so much progress I made with self discovery, both because I was afraid of describing myself The Wrong Way, and because I felt I couldn't consider myself intersex no matter what because I was probably just subconsciously imposing my weird evil desires on shit and finding excuses to use terminology I had no right to. So, I genuinely hate arguments like this. they're not just wrong, but I would argue they have the capacity to harm others. making people out to be Probably Bad People and Fetishizers who Know Nothing for taking on a label they feel a strong connection to is a great way to stunt self understanding and to make people afraid of exploring.

sorry for rambling and probably sounding incoherent, I just felt weirdly passionate out of nowhere and did not intend to go on this long (,: but ultimately I'm glad there are others around here willing to be critical of these sort of random limitations.

~ chimera-summer

Fully agree with you here. Like 90% of detransitioned people we've seen have still identified with some form of trans, and having a non-linear transition is a huge aspect of that that status-quo-hater seems to have completely left out of the discussion.

All around it was very odd to be so supportive of contradictory labels, only to throw this out in the open.

It's also quite frustrating to be in a system and have singlets talk over us. Singlets don't have a right to dictate the identity of systems, only other systems have the right to input on that.

The world sees us as trans. Our innerworld experiences and outerworld experiences directly interlock. People treat sysmates differently than they treat singlets. That's just a fact of plurality. When I (Weniviere) told someone I was wolffipathian in the innerworld, toxic singlets in my life immediately start debating the validity of my gender.

And we still cannot get over the binary-centric view of non-binary women that it was putting out there. Mulleripathian non-binary women still have to do all kinds of shit to be recognized as their gender, and most of the time, they are still misgendered by people around them, by having the transness of their identity erased.

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[mogai-headcanons]

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Fred Jones from Scooby-Doo! Mystery Incorporated is a butch transfeminine genderqueer aromantic greysexual pan lesbian who uses xenogender labels and uses he/him and ey/eir pronouns!

He's in a queerplatonic relationship with Daphne Blake, a femme nonbinary woman asexual omni lesbian who uses xenogender labels and uses she/her, he/him, and they/them pronouns!

Velma Dinkley is a femme intersex aroace lesbian who uses xenogender labels and uses shi/her pronouns!

Shaggy Rogers is a gay aroace nonbinary person who uses he/him, she/her, and it/its pronouns!

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[charlie-lottie]

CiSNEUFEM • ЦИСНЕЙФЕМ

`🌷 ˑ ִֶ 𓂃⊹ for intersex people who are cisneutral & cisfem/ciswoman.

Usage options: being these genders at the same time ; gender fluidity ; being in between these genders ; uncertainty ; etc.

`🌷 ˑ ִֶ 𓂃⊹ для интерсекс которые являются циснейтрал и цисфем/цисженщеной.

Варианты использования: быть этими гендерами одновременно ; изменчивость гендера ; находится между этими гендерами ; неуверенность ; и т.д

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✦ 　── 　 SAPPHEIR ( pronounced saff - air ): is a term for afro-american individuals who are AFAB, but do not identify as women outside of the context of being a black woman in america, largely due to how society perceives them.

✧ 　── 　 those who identify as sappheir do so specifically in reclamation of the “sapphire,” or “angry black woman” trope, which originated in america. sappheirs take pride in being ( perceived as ) black women, and embrace whatever biases that are held against them.

✧ 　── 　 this term is exclusive to afro-american ( as in, soulaan ) afab individuals who are under the transgender / nonbinary umbrella.

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